I lost my virginity!

I was a virgin when it comes to trusting people. I trust implicitly and take their words at the surface, not caring or knowing that it might mean something else! Now I am told that what people say may not be what they mean! How tiring, how confusing, how annoying? Now I have to analyse each word and nuance, think 4 steps ahead, do not commit until every thing is clear. So what now? Analysis paralysis. Sit back and do nothing!